24 outubro 2006

-- artigo sobre swing --

Desta vez vou copiar aqui para o meu diário um estudo feito nos Estados Unidos sobre swing.
Talvez possa ajudar alguém meio duvidoso sobre o que é o swing e os seus efeitos na vida do casal.
Bjs

Scientific research on swingers in the USA has consistently found that swingers have better pair-bonds than monogamous couples.
The most recent and most thorough research found swingers are happier in their relationships than the norm. 60% of swingers said that swinging improved their relationship and only 1.7% said it made their relationship less happy.
Half of those who rated their relationship very happy before becoming swingers maintained it had become even happier. 90% of those with less happy relationships said swinging improved them.
Almost 70% of swingers claimed no problem with jealousy, around a quarter admitted to some jealousy but only 6% said it was very much a problem.
Swingers rate themselves happier (59% against 32% very happy) and their lives much more exciting (76% against 54% exciting) than does the rest of the population, by surprisingly large margins.
There was no difference between the responses of men and women. Hard to believe?
This study - Bergstrand & Williams - was carried out in 2000 by a private Catholic university in the USA with an upper middle-class conservative reputation.
Earlier research going back over 30 years broadly confirms the same conclusions. So far no published research has validated popular misunderstandings about swinging or the prejudices of the bigots.
Authoritative estimates place the rate of serious relationship problems caused by swinging at between 2% and 6% of participants.
Comparing this with the 70% failure rate of first-time marriages and the high break-up rates of other monogamous relationships, it is tempting to conclude that relationship breakdown is essentially a phenomenon of monogamy.

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